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Sunday, November 16, 2025
The Greatest Enemy of God
Thursday, November 13, 2025
Sunday, November 9, 2025
Sunday, November 2, 2025
The Thankful Heart
THE THANKFUL HEART
The thankful heart is a happy heart - God believingThe thankful heart is a bountiful heart - God receiving
The thankful heart is a generous heart - It knows the joy of giving
The thankful heart is a healthy heart - It is the key to living!
Sunday, October 19, 2025
Pray Without Ceasing - Pastor's Pen
1 Thessalonians 5:17 is a very short verse.
It simply says, "PRAY WITHOUT CEASING." Paul gives instruction to this in addition to other things that the church ought to be doing. What is he trying to tell us? Well, looking at a few other translations and paraphrases we come up with these descriptions
- "Always keep praying" - Living Bible.
- "Pray continually" - New International Version
- "Pray without ceasing" - Life Application Bible
- "Never give up praying" - Goodspeed Translations
- "Be unceasing in prayer" - Amplified Bible
- "Be praying unceasingly" - Greek New Testament
- "Never stop praying" - Phillips Translation
- Prayer helps us to trust God
- Prayer helps us worship God
- Prayer draws us closer to God
- Prayer warms the soul to spiritual things
- Prayer is answered by the One we are praying to.
Friday, October 17, 2025
Rejoice Beyond Your Circumstances
Tonight I'm all in with this study of Philippians… I'm not getting super far but I did manage to get through 1:12-18 before Tiff came upstairs and RyGuy decided to use my back as a bouncy horse. The circumstances for study are rarely ideal… My mind is rarely clear of distractions but it's encouraging to hear Paul's take on circumstances and how God uses them.
Phillipians 1:12-18 (Legacy Standard Bible)
Now I want you to know, brothers, that my circumstances have turned out for the greater progress of the gospel,so that my chains in Christ have become well known throughout the whole praetorian guard and to everyone else, and that most of the brothers, having become confident in the Lord because of my chains, have far more courage to speak the word of God without fear.Some, to be sure, are preaching Christ even from envy and strife, but some also from good will; the latter do it out of love, knowing that I am appointed for the defense of the gospel; the former proclaim Christ out of selfish ambition rather than from pure motives, thinking to cause me affliction in my chains. What then? Only that in every way, whether in pretense or in truth, Christ is proclaimed, and in this I rejoice. Yes, and I will rejoice
Paul could have easily focused on his chains, his discomfort, or his likely upcoming death. Instead, he saw something wonderful… his imprisonment was actually advancing the gospel! The imperial guard was hearing about Christ, and other believers were becoming bolder in sharing their faith by seeing Paul's witness.
What's fascinating here is Paul's response to those preaching Christ. Some did it out of love, while others preached from envy and rivalry. As someone that once aspired to be a pastor, I can't help but think about how this applies to ministry even today. We compare ourselves to other peoples Ministries, we do mental headcounts and try to quantify our efficacy by baptisms and altar call respondents. We can sometimes let our pride get in the way and warp our motives… But here's what really gets me … Paul wasn't bitter or frustrated… he didn't jump online and start calling out people…His singular focus was that Christ was being proclaimed… Whether through people with pure motives or those with selfish ambitions.. PAUL REJOICED BECAUSE THE GOSPEL WAS ADVANCING.
Tonight my bride made dinner, did laundry and a load of dishes… after a full work day and all while literally growing a human… and if He's anything like his siblings he's probably climbing around everywhere in there… and in spite of all the noise she's showing the grace and love of Christ and it reminds me that our circumstances don't determine God's ability to work.
Sometimes what looks like a setback is actually God's setup for something greater at least it is here for Paul.
The question isn't whether our situation is comfortable or ideal. The real question is this… Can we see beyond our circumstances to rejoice in how God might be using them for His glory? Paul's chains became a pulpit.. and his prison became a mission field.
Remember, the gospel isn't limited by our circumstances, it advances through them. And in that, we can truly rejoice.
Saturday, October 4, 2025
Our Exodus from Sin
Sunday, September 14, 2025
He is Coming Quickly
Sunday, September 7, 2025
The Fragrance of Christ
The concept of the "fragrance of Christ" is found in 2 Corinthians.
Let the beauty of Jesus be seen in me All His wonderful passion and purity Oh, thou Spirit divine, all my nature refine Till the beauty of Jesus be seen in me.
Let's submit to His work!
Wednesday, August 20, 2025
The Mendiola Family Journey
Reflecting on the incredible journey God has brought Tiffany and I on together. When we first got married 19 years ago, we had no idea the plans He had in store for us. We knew we wanted to start a family, but struggled with infertility for several years. It wasn't easy, we both struggled with feelings of longing, emptiness, and grief.. and the Lord knows I didn't make it easy for my wife as I battled depression and self-harm. But by God's grace, Tiff and I clung to each other and to our faith in Jesus. We knew that every life, from the moment of conception, has inherent dignity and worth. So even when our chances were slim, we kept praying and believing for a miracle.
And God answered in ways beyond what we could ask or imagine! After 10 years of trying, we were overjoyed to adopt our precious daughter Kairi. Tiff even got to be in the room the moment she came into the world! What a gift from above she has been to us. Then, amazingly, the Lord blessed us again 4 years later with our son Rylan. Two beautiful, healthy children - clear evidence of God's faithfulness when we felt all hope was lost. In March of 2025 We welcomed Micah James into the family.
We don't know what the future holds, but we know the One who holds the future. As Joshua 24:15 says, "as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." That is the anthem and the aim of our family. We are so grateful for the story He is writing in us and through us!
Sunday, August 10, 2025
Surviving the Enemy's Flaming Arrows
Sunday, July 27, 2025
The Importance of Hearing
I found the following article interesting. I think you will eye, the Lord has made them (Proverbs 20:12) These remarkable organs allow us to participate in the world around Master Designer.
Besides the intricate mechanism of the inner ear, the outer us. But they also are reminders that they are designed by the ear is remarkable in its design as well. Not only is it a receiver, it also is constructed to protect the entryway. The outer ear, known as the 'pinna' tunnels sound into your inner ear canal. The pinna can tell you where sounds arm coming from, the ridges and grooves of the ear shape sound waves differently depending on where the sound originates. As a result, the brain learns to associate certain amplification patterns with certain directions.
So, if you lost your ears, you might be able to hear, but you would not be able to tell where the sound was coming from. Scientists have pointed out "Our ears act like satellite dishes, capturing and focusing sound waves centrally down the ear canal. Although the ears cannot move like some animals ears, Our heads will automatically turn to improve the reception."
Sunday, July 20, 2025
The Importance of Good Soil
"Jesus did many other things as well, if every one of them were written down I suppose that even the whole world would not have room for the books that would be written."
WAYSIDE v12
Seed that fell on the edges of the plowed field which would never penetrate the soil and grow. This would refer to the hard-hearted Jewish leaders who would never receive the Word of God. It also describes people of today who, because of a hardened heart, reject the message of truth.
STONY GROUND v13
THORNY GROUND v14
GOOD GROUND v15
Let us share some of that fruit with others...today!
Sunday, June 29, 2025
The Importance of Israel
Jesus is coming soon, are you ready?
Sunday, June 1, 2025
Celebrating Our Deliverance
Exodus 12:41 records the day when the children of Israel left Egypt after 430 years of slavery. After that many years the people felt 'comfortable' in their habitat, and life droned on year after year. Not until God sent Moses to lead them out of bondage, did they see any hope for the future. After that many years of slavery their understanding of who they were was nonexistent. Egypt didn't just control their labor - it shaped their identity. They were born into slavery, raised in opposition and conditioned to believe they were nothing more than slaves. For generations, they had belonged to Pharaoh.
Sunday, May 25, 2025
Memorial Day
Sunday, May 18, 2025
The Symphony of Life
Backstage, the master pianist overheard
Life is a symphony, since the man of Galilee Changed my discords into song, Makes life sweet the whole day long. Life is a symphony, praise the Lord of Calvary No more a stranger, He is the arranger of my symphony.
Monday, April 21, 2025
Bush Eyes
A newly appointed missionary was walking along a jungle trail with some natives. Suddenly, one of the natives fired his gun and by doing so, killed a huge green snake lying in the path ahead. The missionary had not seen the snake and would have stepped on it. As they walked on, the native stopped the missionary and asked, “Do you see the leopard?” The missionary said that he did not see the leopard – just shadows. When the leopard was pointed out to him, he asked, “Why could I not see the snake or the leopard? I walk on the same path as you do – you see the snake; I just see the path. You point out the leopard and I just see shadows. Why can’t I see those things?” The native responded, “You have to develop ‘bush eyes.’ If you stay in the jungle long enough, you will develop what we call ‘bush eyes.’
Some people can walk through life and never see the blessings of God; are never truly grateful for what they receive from Him. But when the Holy Spirit begins to develop our ‘bush eyes’ we begin to see blessings we have never seen before.
- We begin to develop attitudes of gratitude for things around us.
- We begin to see the beauty and worth of persons around us.
- We begin to see God where no one else sees Him.
- We begin to see God when everyone else sees a newborn baby.
- We begin to see God when everyone else sees a flower.
- ·We begin to see God in a bubbling stream of water when others just see the movement
- We begin to hear God speak to us in a song – when others just hear a melody.
- We begin to hear the voice of God even in a moment of silence – when others think that silence is a waste of time.
- We begin to see God in the vastness of the heavens – when others just see points of light.
Complaining seems to be a way of life for many, even Christians. One of the sins that God dislikes is that of complaining – or murmuring. Numbers 11:1 reads, “Now when the people complained, it displeased the Lord.” Our society seems to have something in common with those Israelites thousands of years ago. There seems to be very little gratitude for what God has blessed us with. I can understand where an unbeliever might be ungrateful, but the Christian ought always to be grateful to God for His unlimited blessings. Reading the Book of Psalms, we find innumerable references to being thankful. One we are most familiar with is found in Psalm 100:4, “Enter into His gates with THANKSGIVING and into His court with PRAISE.” The spiritual life is not difficult. We often make it difficult. All we need to do is look a little closer at the ‘ordinary’ things in our lives, realizing that they come from God. Asking God to develop our ‘bush eyes’ will enable us to see unlimited blessings that heretofore have gone unnoticed. As has been said, ‘from a grateful heart springs untold blessing.’ May that blessing be yours!
Monday, November 18, 2024
Finding Balance: A Christian Father's Perspective on Stoicism
Finding Balance: A Christian Father's Perspective on Stoicism
It’s been a while since I posted…sorry about that, we’ve been hard at work launching the new site, but here I am back behind the keyboard making with the clickety clacks, as my whole world is in front of me watching Oliver and Company. Rylan is on his fourth viewing this weekend (my brain is constantly playing a looped mix of theme songs from the Minno Laugh and Grow Bible, Bible Man the Animated Adventures, and Billy Joel slowly eroding my sanity). That said… Oliver and Company has always been my favorite animated Disney film.
I know the film is full of music and fun, but also there are some lessons to be grasped for my little dude. Be it Oliver’s resilience in the face of adversity or Dodger’s sense of duty and responsibility, the way the gang maintains their dignity and make the best of their situation despite the circumstances, the way Fagin still chooses to do the right thing even though Sykes absolves him of his debt… as I ponder the themes and how they might shape my young son’s character it strikes me how much Stoicism is on display in these characters and in this story. And thus here we are… as Rita ironically belts out “Streets of Gold” I'm reflecting on this philosophical tension… as one does right? The growing attraction to Stoicism among Christian men, particularly fathers, gives me pause… not least because I've felt its pull myself.
The Intersection of Stoic Philosophy and Christian Thought Isn't New
When Paul stood at the Areopagus… you know, the famous Mars Hill incident (Acts 17:16-34), he engaged with Stoic philosophers, even quoting their poets in verse 28, “ ‘For in him we live and move and have our being. As some of your own poets have said, ‘We are his offspring’”. Paul does this to build a bridge to the Gospel. Where they saw an unknown god, Paul flipped the script and proclaimed the personal, sovereign Lord.
Just last week, as I was dealing with Rylan… pulling a Rylan.. I caught myself falling into pure Stoic reasoning: "Calm down buddy, find your center.” It sounds like the right thing to say, right? It’s how I’ve been conditioned to handle my emotions… “Control your response, emotions are a choice, no one is responsible for my reactions but me, maintain composure". While these aren't bad principles, per se, I realize I operate from a position of self-reliance rather than God-dependence. And as a result, I end up exploding in rage as my reliance on self is a reliance on a weak flesh and a simple mind. Instead, I needed to model what David expressed in Psalm 62:5: "For God alone, O my soul, wait in silence, for my hope is from him."
When Kairi comes to me with her fears about school, or some middle schooler on the bus.. or at the skating rink saturday when she was worried about the kid in the Zimmerman hat and if he was making fun of her… my instinct is often to echo Seneca: "We suffer more often in imagination than in reality." While there's truth there, I'm learning to instead point her to 1 Peter 5:7: "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." The difference is HUGE! One philosophy offers cold comfort, while our Father offers warm embrace.
The Allure… and the DANGER of Stoicism
Marcus Aurelius wrote, "Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking." This sentiment resonates with many of us seeking stability in chaotic times. However, as I hold this against Paul's words in Philippians 4:13, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me," the fundamental contrast becomes clear.
The danger lies not in Stoicism's practical wisdom, but in its underlying assumption of self-sufficiency; how we respond to our circumstances.
When Epictetus teaches, "The chief task in life is simply this: to identify and separate matters so that I can say clearly to myself which are externals not under my control, and which have to do with the choices I actually control," it sounds remarkably practical. But Jesus says, in John 15:5: "Apart from Me you can do nothing." The Stoic pursuit of self-mastery fundamentally opposes the Christian understanding of complete dependence on God.
The stoics write that "We cannot choose our external circumstances, but we can always choose how we respond to them.” The biblical perspective goes deeper; Scripture teaches "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding". Our response should flow from dependence on God, not self-reliance.
The Stoic focus on self-sufficiency as "the ultimate virtue" directly contradicts biblical truth. The Bible declares, "But they who wait for the LORD shall renew their strength", pointing to God as the source of all strength and virtue.
Rather than seeking self-sufficiency, Scripture calls us to God-dependency. "God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble". This is not weakness, but rather the path to true strength through submission to and reliance on our Creator.
The Christian life isn't about mastering ourselves through force of will, but about surrendering to the One who masters us through His grace and power.
How do we Find the Biblical Balance
In those moments when Micah (coming soon!) keeps us up all night and Tiff and I are running on empty, Epictetus would tell us "It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters." But I'm learning I need to lean into James when he says, "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance."
Marcus Aurelius says "Accept the things to which fate binds you." But as I look at my beige brigade, I want them to know something far more powerful… Romans 8:28: "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him." This isn't mere acceptance, it's triumphant hope.
A Father's Prayer
As I navigate this journey of fatherhood, I'm grateful for the wisdom of the Stoics. Their insights into human nature and self-discipline aren't worthless… in fact they’re common grace gifts from God. But I want more for my children. When Rylan faces disappointment, when Kairi encounters injustice, when baby Micah cries in the night, I want them to know more than self-reliance. I want them to know the God who "neither slumbers nor sleeps" (Psalm 121:4).
